Beyond limit

Last week I got to know that Megha is taking pills for depression for the last 6-8 months. This was shocking for me I couldn’t believe it, I thought this is just another joke about to come from her mouth. She is so a fun-loving person, you can not be sad or you can not seat silently in her presence. She will make you express yourself. She will give you that comfort to open up. She is amazing. How such a person can be depressed?

So many questions are running through my mind. What happened? How this can happen? No, she does not have any psychological illness.

I wanted to know. We met again and insisted to tell me what happened.

Nayan, The person she is in a relationship with. He loves Megha a lot. No one doubts it. Nayan is so possessive about Megha. When Nayan is not in the city, he always wants to be in touch with Megha through text messages or calls. He cares for her. Keep asking what are doing? where are you going?

To love someone deeply is good, to care for someone to the fullest is great, and to be possessive of someone you love is normal. But you have to understand that you have to give some space to everyone you love. You should not embrace anyone so tightly that he or she can’t breathe.

to be continued….

Men’s world

First of all, I tell you I truly believe in gender equality even though men and women both are different,  physically and emotionally.

Men and women should be respected equally. but the sad thing is around the world men have established supremacy compared to women.

I do not doubt that women are equally capable to do every work that men can do. In the field of Sports, Science, Politics or any work that needs physical and mental strength, women have proved themself.

Our society has one equal mindset around the world. In the very important decision of selecting a partner, women have very limited options from the list of men who have chosen her. In most of the cases where men choose women and women have the right to say yes or no. that’s good. Women like to be chosen she loves to be appreciated.

Wow, women’s decision is final.

Do you think this is equality?

Why women can not make a decision and choose a person she loves?
A woman who chooses a man she loves and proposes to him, people will question her character. This is where inequality can be seen.

Women are still not free to choose or propose to their dream man even if she is found one. In the fear of people will question her character if she will take initiative. forget the society the man who she loves might question her dignity.

This is not a south Indian movie. This is reality. She can not propose, Maximum she smiles when she wants to flirt or she wants to give hint. And wait for her luck.

Men’s World.

Nothing is bad or good

But smoking is bad. You can not smoke in public places. It is an offence. But you can smoke in smoking zones. You can smoke in your home but you should not smoke in the presence of your kids.

Everything is fair when it has been done in the right place and at the right time.

The relationship is not hard

The mismatch makes relationships hard.
find the right one for you.
the person who is not right for you might be right for others.
nobody is totally wrong.

Love is beautiful

Yes, this is the most beautiful feeling when you are in love no matter what. And seriously you don’t need to know the name of those chemicals (Testosterone, Estrogen, Dopamine, Norepinephrine, Serotonin, Oxytocin, Vasopressin etc.) for the reason behind your feeling. Nature has given us the wonderful gift of feeling called love and the different types of stages of love you go through in the process. Different stages like Lust, attraction, and attachment. Be careful when you fall in love, you might not succeed in the first attempt. And remember you always have to try for your love. many times. But you have to decide the person you are trying to be in a relationship is he or she has the same feeling for you? are you not running for the wrong person? because the right person will never run.

Try hard, but

But it is ok, you can run :D, we all do stupid things when we are in love. love is Intoxication. The love hormone oxytocin has similar affects to being drunk. When (it takes a few days or years ) you will get out of it you will laugh at the silly things you have done. You will feel that love again by remembering those silly stupid things. So it is ok you can run for a person you love, you can waste your time to get what you love. but don’t cross the limit. Life is not a Bollywood movie. Don’t do anything forcefully, don’t be mad, and don’t try hard that your act put a negative impact. Don’t create such a memory that you can not make yourself laugh upon it and nobody wants to hear.

It is really beautiful when starts when your eyes meet and spark at the same time. And you are speechless and feeling amazing. Thousands of words are not enough to describe that feeling. In search of words, everyone becomes a poet.

Install Love

Technical Support: Yes, how can I help you?

Customer: Well, after much consideration, I’ve decided to install Love. Can you guide me through the process?

Tech Support: Yes. I can help you. Are you ready to proceed?

Customer: Well, I’m not very technical, but I think I’m ready. What do I do first?

Tech Support: The first step is to open your Heart. Have you located your Heart?

Customer: Yes, but there are several other programs running now. Is it okay to install Love while they are running?

Tech Support: What programs are running?

Customer: Let’s see, I have Past Hurt, Low Self-Esteem, Grudge, and Resentment running right now.

Tech Support: No problem, Love will gradually erase Past Hurt from your current operating system. It may remain in your permanent memory but will no long disrupt other programs. Love will eventually override Low Self-Esteem with a module of its own called High Self-Esteem. However, you have to completely turn off Grudge and Resentment. Those programs prevent Love from being properly installed. Can you turn those off?

Customer: I don’t know how to turn them off. Can you tell me how?

Tech Support: With pleasure. Go to your start menu and select Forgiveness. Do this as many times as necessary until Grudge and Resentment have been completely erased.

Customer: Okay, done! Love has started installing itself. Oops! I have an error message already. It says, “Error- Program not run on external components.” What should I do?

Tech Support: Don’t worry. In nontechnical terms, it simply means you have to Love yourself before you can Love others. Pull down Self-Acceptance; then click on the following files: Forgive Self, Realize Your Worth, and Acknowledge Your Limitations.

Customer: Got it. Hey! My heart is filling up with new files. Smile is playing on my monitor and Peace and Contentment are copying themselves all over my Heart. Is this normal?

Tech Support: Yes, that means Love is installed and running. One more thing before we hang up. This Love program is freeware. You’re welcome to share it with others. Please pass it along!

Grateful for the person who prepared this message firsthand and also to the one who shared it.

Your body is not your servant

Your body is your life partner and you already know what is the first rule for a good partnership.

“Listening”

Dance, love and work

Dance like nobody is watching… love like you’ve never been hurt… work like you don’t need money

Men

Men with high IQ are more loyal.

You will know it

Human beings are not capable of being “Just Friends” with members of the opposite sex.